How Important Is The Repetition In Our Lives?

There’s a monotonous nature to much of our lives: We get up; we go to work (which often requires a set of reoccurring procedures); we return home to carry out a patterned set of tasks and pastimes; we go to sleep; repeat. Ask someone, “What have you been up to?” and the answer given back is often something along the lines of “Same old, same old.”

Are the regular, patterned parts of our life where our essence is? Or are unique moments what give life meaning?

Dear reader:  How important is the repetition in our lives?

Related Questions:  What makes you you?  What is important? How can we turn ideas into actions?

What Makes You You?

When I meet someone new, I like to ask, “Who are you?”

Most people provide their occupation as an answer, which is perfectly alright. Others share different aspects of their life that are important to their identity (e.g. if they are parents, their hobbies, something they are proud of). I especially enjoy those replies. However, a small number look at me in a weird, somewhat offended way, as if I have asked a deeply personal question on our first encounter.

I’ll phrase this week’s question somewhat differently. Either abstractly or in a real practical sense what makes you you?

Related questions:  How important is the repetition in our lives?  How much of our thoughts are our own? What are our responsibilities to others?

What Is Important?

Life is complicated, with lots of moving parts. Sometimes it can feel overwhelming, so much is happening. But if you simplify things, strip away all the minutia of everyday living, some events or actions or people mean more than everything else.

In other words: What is important?

Related questions: Why do we spend time on things that are not important? How do you define success? How do we choose our priorities?  How important is the repetition in our lives?

 

What Do We Have In Common?

Everyone is unique. Their DNA and their experiences make them unlike anyone else.

But, on the other hand, we all share things in common, simply by the nature of being human beings. What are those things we all share, despite the color of our skin, despite the political party we belong to, despite the language we speak, despite our economic class, and despite whatever god or gods we do or don’t believe in?

What do we have in common?

Related questions: Why do we care what people think of us? What makes a personal bond? What are the advantages and disadvantages to being the same? Why do we feel the need to belong?

Why Do We Feel The Need To Belong?

The only thoughts I’ll ever truly know are my own. And yet, that doesn’t stop me from wanting to not be alone.

People spend their lives trying to belong: to a spouse, to a family, to a tribe, to a cause, to a country. Where does this need to be more than an individual come from?

Why do we feel the need to belong?

Related questions: Why do we care what strangers think of us? What does it mean to belong to a country? What are our responsibilities to others?