Are You Proud Of Where You Are From?

People often have a complicated relationship with their own past. Which raises the question: Are you proud of where you are from?

There are many reasons why you might be proud of where you grew up, some personal and some others more general.

For the personal, you might note the place you learned to ride a bike, or had your first kiss, or made a particular friend. Or the place you are from might be notable for some other reason, like being a champion in a sport, or producing a famous person.

There are just as many reasons why you might be ashamed of where you are from, following the same general types. If something bad or traumatic happened to you as a child, you might easily associate that with where it took place. Or your home town might be famous for something negative, like drug use, or producing a serial killer.

Of course, it seems likely that where you come from produces in you both shame and pride in some combination. Just like people, places are complicated, with any number of both good and bad points. Does the good outweigh the bad, in your opinion? Or vice versa?

The last thing to consider is just how you define “from”. You can be “from” a house, a neighborhood, a town, a state, or a country. And you might well feel a mixture of pride and shame, in different proportions, over each one. It’s perfectly reasonable, for example, to feel pride in your country while still being ashamed of some of the things it has done.

Do you feel great pride or shame over where you originated? Why do you feel that way, and how has it changed as you’ve gotten older?

Related questions: Where are you from? What makes a place feel like home? What are you the most proud of?

 

How Do You Handle Life’s Curveballs?

Life can be unpredictable. How do you respond when the unexpected happens, when life throws you a curveball?

For the most part, we like to live neat, orderly lives. We fill our closet with clothes we like to wear, stock our fridge or pantry with food options. We keep calendars with our schedules, so we know exactly what each day entails.

But life has a way defying expectations.  Each day, hundreds of things happen that you didn’t plan for, that you didn’t see coming. Some might be good, like unexpected opportunities. And some might be bad, like accidents or emergencies.

With so many curveballs each day, developing a strategy to deal with them, if possible, is a good idea.  Sticking with a plan has advantages, but so does being flexible. Striking the right balance between the two can be crucial.

How do you deal with the unexpected? Are you good at rolling with the punches, or do you try to plan for every possible outcome? How do you handle it when you are thrown a curveball?

Related questions: How do you plan for the future? Do you keep a to-do list? Planning or spontaneity? How has luck shaped your life?

Dreams: Color Or Black And White?

When you recall your dreams at night, are they in color? Or are they like an old movie, in black and white only?

Share why if you wish.

Dreams: Color Or Black And White?

Live Music Or Live Comedy?

Which do you most enjoy seeing live and in person, music or comedy? For each one, what does being in a room with people add to the experience?

Share why if you wish.

Live Music Or Live Comedy?

What Makes You Roll Your Eyes?

Are there situations where you know you shouldn’t react, but you can’t help but to roll your eyes with exasperation? What are they?

Share why if you wish.