How Do You Preserve Your Past?

As we age, we collect more and more memories and experiences. How do you preserve the past for the future?

In theory, if you kept the proper documentation you would be able to recreate your life. Ticket stubs from concerts you attended, holiday and birthday cards from friends and family, credit card bills would show what you bought and when, and of course pictures of all the highlights.

Naturally, you probably don’t keep all that stuff. If you preserved everything, you’d pretty soon drown in it all. So probably bills get thrown out after keeping for a predetermined length of time. Cards are displayed for a short while and then recycled. And so on.

But how do you determine what to keep? What makes the cut, and what gets tossed like so much junk?

There is an additional issue to consider for those things you decide to retain. How do you store them, preserve them, organize them, and display them? If you keep, for example, pictures of vacations, do you have albums for each one? Do you keep digital copies only, or do you have physical prints made? How often do you look at them yourself, or show them to other people?

A neat keepsake would be a collage of a hobby you have, like playbills from all the theater productions attended, or bibs from races you’ve run. That could be a way to display them, but to do so requires that you save them until you have enough to gather together.

And what about less fun stuff, like tax returns or bills or receipts. How to you store them until it is safe to dispose of them? What about important documents like a passport, a marriage license, or birth certificate?

Deciding what to keep and how to keep it takes time, organization, and money. How do you manage it?

Related questions: Keep or toss? What material possession means the most to you? How much does your past determine your future? Do you keep a journal?

Horoscope Or Advice Column?

Which are you more likely to read: a daily horoscope, or an advice column? Has your answer changed over time?

Share why if you wish.

Horoscope Or Advice Column?

What Social Media Do You Use Most?

How many social media platforms do you use? Is there one that you enjoy the most? Which one do you spend the most time on?

Share why if you wish.

What Reminds You That You Are Not Alone?

Despite an unprecedented ability to connect, more people than ever are reporting feelings of loneliness.  How do you combat feeling alone?

With the internet, and specifically with social media apps, in theory we are the most connected generation in human history. We have the ability to reengage with old friends on Facebook, perform career networking on LinkedIn, find groups of like-minded people on MeetUp, purchase homemade crafts from artisans on Etsy, and so on.

Celebrities or popular influencers might have millions of followers. Even non-celebrities can be connected to hundreds, thousands, or even more people.

Of course, the quality or strength of those connections can vary drastically. It is not humanly possible to interact in any meaningful way with that many people. As a result, the communication is superficial at best, and might be in one direction only.

In addition, people naturally curate their online life, and most only share the highlights. Smiling pictures while on a vacation in an exotic location. Happy news of a promotion at work. An engagement announcement. A new car, or house, or baby. Photos or videos are from flattering angles, with good lighting.

By contrast, the viewer gets the news while in the same job, living in the same house, in a seemingly unchanging life. It is only natural to feel that others are having success and doing well, while you are being left behind, alone and isolated.

So how do you fight against that? When you feel left out, what do you do?What reminders are there of your friends and loved ones? What sorts of events, virtual or in-person, help you build fulfilling, meaningful connections with other people?

Related questions: Do you feel lonely? How do you make friends as an adult? What are you doing to build community? How do you choose a hobby?

What Catalog Do You Enjoy Most?

Do you receive catalogs in the mail? Are there any you particularly look forward to getting and perusing?

Share why if you wish.