How Do You Stand Up To A Bully?

Whether it is on a playground, in a board room, or in international politics, you are likely to find yourself, at some point, faced with a bully. How should you handle it?

There is one school of thought that the only language a bully understands is violence. The best way to deal with one on the schoolyard, as this theory goes, is to bloody their nose.

Of course, this is not universally applicable. If you punch a bullying co-worker in the nose, you are likely to be fired.


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Another possible way of dealing with a bully is to ignore them. Don’t let them goad you into an action you may regret. However, if an aggressive action goes unanswered, it might embolden more abusive behavior.

So what is the best way to handle this situation? How should you stand up to a bully?

Related questions: Why do we put up with unhappiness? How can we build confidence? Hold firm or compromise? How much power does an individual have?

 

Anonymous Or Open-Book?

Whether online or in person, do you prefer to remain mysterious, or are you transparent for all to see? Do you remain anonymous, or is your life open-book?

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Anonymous Or Open-Book?

What Is The Best Sporting Event You Have Seen In Person?

It can be great fun to watch a game on TV, or to read about it after the fact. But there is something magical about attending a great sporting event. What is the best one you have seen in person?

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