What Is The Relationship Between Fear And Passion?

Passion and fear are both emotions that you are bound to experience over time. Are they linked in some way?

On the surface, there wouldn’t seem to be much in common between the emotion of passion and that of fear. One would seem to be positive, and bring about joy and interest. The other is more negative.

However, once you are passionate about something, you might very well fear it’s loss.

Imagine something, if you will, about which you are passionate. Maybe your family or friends. A sports team, perhaps, or a career.

Now think about a threat it might be taken away from you. What might you do to prevent that? What lengths might you go to keep the thing that you love, that brings meaning to your life?

The person who doesn’t care about anything doesn’t fear losing anything. They don’t, however, experience the same joy and happiness that the rest of us do.

Passion can generate fear in another way, as well. Think about  a performer getting up at an open mic, or an author with a new book, or an athlete in a championship game. They care deeply about what they are doing, but are scared about presenting to the public, and how their work will be received. They fear messing up, of failing in front of everyone. Yet that fear can also drive them.

So how are the fear and passion related? And how does the experience of one inform the other? How can we prepare for them both, in a way that is productive and healthy?

Related questions: What are you passionate about? What role does fear play in your life? What is the right amount of emotion?

What Sport Do You Wish You Were Better At?

Is there a sport that you’ve always wanted to do, but aren’t very good at? No matter how much you practice? Is it a team or individual sport?

Share why if you wish.

 

New Mistakes Or Old Mistakes?

When you make mistakes, do you find they tend to be ones you’ve made over and over before? Or ones that are brand new?

Share why if you wish.

New Mistakes Or Old Mistakes?

How Do You Sabotage Yourself?

Sometimes, we are our own worst enemy. In what ways do you sabotage yourself, which can lead to failure and frustration?

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What Embarrasses You?

We all get embarrassed at one time or another. If you think back on those times, can you find a common thread to what embarrasses you?

There are many things that people find embarrassing. For some, it might be a bodily function of some sort. For others, it might be something normally kept private. And of course, there are many others as well.

While it can be uncomfortable to think about those things that make you feel shame, it can also be helpful. By identifying what embarrasses you, you might be able to avoid awkward situations. Or, in the best case scenario, you might realize there is nothing to be embarrassed about after all.

If you think back to the last time you were embarrassed, what was it about? Can you pinpoint why it is that situation makes you feel shame? Is it something taught you by your parents? Was it a result of your peers laughing at or making fun of you? Or something else entirely?

Related questions: What do you do that you shouldn’t? How can we build confidence? Can vulnerability be strength? What do you waste the most?