What Do You Want?

For many people, this time of year is about gift-giving and -receiving. Little children are expected to sit on Santa’s lap and tell them what they want for Christmas. Even for adults, this time of year can be a good opportunity to answer the question: What do you want?

As an added bonus, it doesn’t even need to be Christmas specific. In general, what is it you want — for yourself, for your community, or for the world at large?


Listen to a podcast where Michael and Lee discuss the related question: ‘How do you define success?’ We also discuss a bonus question: ‘Is happiness the most important purpose in life?’


This question, when tied to the Christmas holiday, tends to be focused on the commercial. What present should someone wrap and put under the tree? However, in our thought exercise, it can be more than that. Not there is anything wrong with wanting a material good, like a new smartphone or a video game console. But you may also want something abstract, like justice, or peace, or happiness.

Knowing what it is that you want, some would argue, is the first step to getting it.  After all, if you don’t know what it is that you want, how will you know if you have achieved it?

So, like a child standing in line at the mall, waiting for a chance to sit on Santa’s lap, think about what you plan on asking for. What do you want?

Related questions: What new technology do you want? What do you want to do before you die? Why do we like what we like? What would you do with a million dollars?

Give Or Receive?

As the saying goes, “‘Tis better to give than to receive”. And certainly it feels good to give gifts to others. But let’s be honest — receiving is pretty great too. There is a reason that kids don’t go around giving candy on Halloween.

Which do you prefer?

Share why if you wish.

Give Or Receive?

Roses Or Chocolates?

Is there one you would rather get? One that you would rather give? Why are roses and chocolates associated with love?

Share why if you wish.

Roses Or Chocolates?

Hand-Made Or Store-Bought?

When it comes to something made by hand or something bought in a store, which do you prefer to give? To receive?

Share why if you wish.

Hand-Made Or Store-Bought?